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slap on the face

September 12, 2008

mi says:
easy with the mood swings
mi says:
ok known him since last year
midget says:
not mood swing…but I am not going to push u…..
midget says:
ok so he is or was your boy friend…or u want him to commit?
mi says:
he’s never been a boyfriend. 
midget says:
I see
midget says:
so if u want more…why dont you work it out?
mi says:
i want to…
mi says:
but then, don’t want to ask. not sure what his answer will be or will i be able to take it then
midget says:
I see
midget says:
well .. people like him are easy to predict with things like this…they can seem very cold….but ….at the same time they can be pulled in easily……It is so strange how emotionally different people are. This girl I dated here for 2 years, we used to talk about it alot. It took her months to accept that I was just always going to be sweet to her. And when she opened up she would easily tear up. 
midget says:
Anyway .,…look….if this guy is single and he is not playing with you…then you should not wait……
midget says:
There are lots of things that keep men from moving forward ….and one of them is u letting them off easy…..in his mind his options are all open….and that is a stupid fantasy …… if he is into you then he will be happy to close the options
mi says:
hmmmmm
mi says:
i somehow know that already but am just too stubborn to accept the truth
mi says:
the thing is, he’s nice to me
mi says:
very nice
midget says:
OK
midget says:
well
midget says:
U need to “pull the trigger” ….. he doesn’t want to commit for selfish reasons that in the end will leave u hurt. If u take control u can probably get what u want. 

mi says:
please explain further
midget says:
U cant let everything be about him…on his schedule…etc etc…it causes first date syndrome …..it sucks…..and even for a guy sometimes it gets old..it is fun at first…..but then it stops….
midget says:
Look if he lives somewhere else and U live here……then well your entire relationship will always be under pressure. U are not emotionally available to other men….and you are waiting all the time …….this is bad for you. And it can keep you locked up for along time. 
midget says:
U r young and cute but something like this can make u bitter and in the end u will be really lost. I know I have done things like this before.
midget says:
I dont believe in long distance unless both people have the ability to see one another when they choose….BUT…. if u want to try then u need to make a strong effort…u cant act as if u r both in dubai and can see each other….ALSO u cant just do things on a random schedule…..
midget says:
You have to love yourself too. 
midget says:
I dont have much more to say….make a real plan….get reservations made….and not matter what go. The important thing is the time u spend. And u need to test him to see where he is emotionally and if he is really single etc etc etc……u r clever I am sure u can figure it out once it is moving 
mi says:
you must have found the elixir of wisdom, you’re a fountain of knowledge
mi says:
hehehehehe
mi says:
definitely you are more experienced on this than i am
mi says:
thanks for that. hehehe
midget says:
Anytime u want to talk…..I will listen ok? But be tough and if something happens and he gets angry etc….dont do anything …he wont go far ……men are little boys when they get angry…and little angry boys have to be ignored until they calm down….you have all the control if u choose to use it.
mi says:
alllllllright
mi says:
thanks thanks!

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